Being alone in a new country

I still remember the old days when I always had people to hang out with, sometimes I even would have to choose between different people because my social life was so “busy”. I used to go to events every weekend and during the week hang out with friends, always someone there for me, always someone to talk. Those were some great years and I didn’t know how much would I miss them

6 years ago I came to America for the first time , during those years I’ve met people and also my partner, we have been together for almost 3 years and it’s great, but if it wasn’t for him, I would have no one , nadie .

I don’t have friends in this country, I don’t know who to talk to when I want to hang out with someone, I don’t have girl friends to go and do our nails or hair, I thought I had friends until one day during a really dark time of my life I asked for help and they didn’t even reply my text

Being alone is hard, specially when you were used to never being alone, I always had somebody to talk to, if I didn’t know what to do during my free time there was always people there waiting for me to hang out with them.

I spend my days with my dogs at home, sometimes at the park , that’s pretty much it , I don’t have someone to call and invite home to watch girly movies , or someone that would call me and invite me to hang out with them . Loneliness is a pretty hard pill to swallow, you look around and see nothing, never receive a text , or a call , loneliness is hard, if you can, make sure people around you never feel alone, because is one of the worst pains ever .

2 responses to “Being alone in a new country”

  1. Ánimo Alexandra, eres una mujer increíble en tooodos los sentidos, seguro que pronto encontrarás gente con quién compartir y que no te haga sentir tan sola allá. Por otro lado, quería decirte también que tus textos son geniales, me gusta leerte y ojalá sigas escribiendo. Un abrazote. 🙂

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    1. Gracias Felipe por tu comentario! y gracias por leer mi blog! un abrazo enorme ! ❤

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